Friday, May 11, 2007

Hmmm.

Well, another interesting talk with Andy last night.
Apparently, I'm still not being supportive enough... no, not supportive, not sympathic enough.

See, the thing is that when she gets cold and hostile with me, I try to be sympathic... and I try to be understanding... and when these things don't work (and they don't), I try to be cold and hostile in return. Which works.

Andy says that she wants me to be more understanding... when she's being hostile to me, I should be more "Why are you doing this?", and less "Alright, cut the crap and stop doing this".

[shrugs]

I'll try, for sure.

Anyway, I hope she's feeling better sooner rather than later... if we want to move to Toronto in August, we have to get our butts in gear now, not later. And she's still not "ready" to apply for work... I'm trying to be as understanding as I can be, but she's kinda putting a lot of pressure on ME to make sure things are okay... I mean, if I quit my job in June (like I very, very much plan to do), what then? Suddenly our only real means of support disappears...
[sigh]

I'm sure everything will work out. I'm really looking forward to the weekend, though... some time to sleep and relax will be very welcome!

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